One or three things
1. Learn to close the door: that is, learn to close the doors of yesterday and tomorrow. Live well every day, every day, is a lifetime of happiness.
2, learn to calculate: learn to calculate your own happiness and calculate what you do right. Calculating happiness will make you happier as you calculate it. Calculating what you do right will make you more confident as you calculate it.
3, learn to give up: especially recommend a good word: willing. Remember, “house” is first “get” after. Everything in the world is always given up, or given up will be given up, and “not willing to give up at all” or “everything you want” will be contrary to your wishes or achieve nothing.
Two, doctrine three sentences
1, forget it! That is to say, the best way to accept an impossible fact is to accept this fact.
2, it doesn’t matter! That is, no matter what happens, even if it is a big thing, say to yourself: “never mind!” Remember, a positive and optimistic attitude is the first step to solve any problem and overcome any difficulties.
3. will pass by! No matter how heavy the rain falls or how many days it lasts, be confident that it will clear up, because it will not always be cloudy. Nature is the same and life is the same.
Three, learn “three music”
That is: helping others, being happy and enjoying themselves. What’s more, when you are in good times, you should help others to enjoy yourself, when you are in good times, you should be content with yourself, and when you are in adversity, you should learn to enjoy yourself.
Four, learn three “no”.
1, don’t punish yourself by others’ mistakes. There are many people in real life who are not afraid of hardship, death, heavy burdens that can not crush him, and great difficulties that can not frighten him, but he can not bear grievances and wrongs. In fact, grievance and wrongfulness means that others make mistakes, and you do not make mistakes; and not being able to stand grievance and wrongfulness means punishing yourself by others’mistakes. Understand this truth, and then encounter this situation, the best way to deal with it is to laugh at it, do not take it seriously.
2, don’t punish others with your own mistakes. When they are wronged or treated unfairly, they will also injustice others or treat others unfairly. In fact, when you hurt others, you will be hurt again.
3, do not punish yourself with your own mistakes. What is a good person? We think that if we give him 10 things to do, 7~8 is the good person. Obviously, there is another implication in this sentence, that is, a good person can do wrong, and a good person can make mistakes. So it doesn’t matter that a good person does something wrong. It doesn’t matter how big a mistake he makes. As long as he carefully finds out the reasons and learns from them, he can correct it.