我最庆幸的是:你没变,我也没变。

1、

热闹了一个夏天的高温天气,终于在8月即将要终结的几天里大张旗鼓的凉爽起来。说起来,这种突如其来的凉意有些措手不及,还好,我前段时间刚好购置了秋天的衣服,也不至于打开衣柜不知道穿什么好了。

因为是下雨的缘故,天色也早早的就进入了夜晚模式。我在家整理早晨出门的时候被我翻乱的衣柜,大功告成之后,我躺在床上,翻看着手机。想到一位好久没有联系的朋友上个月发来消息说:铭哥,我这个月结婚,在北京,希望你有空了赏脸来。

突然的,就陷入了回忆之中。因为通讯录里有重名的朋友,我点开了她的头像,想确认一下到底是哪一个朋友。她已经把头像换成了婚纱照,难怪我没认出来。确认之后,我没有及时回复。只是突然间,脑海里全部出现的是大学时光里和她一起奔走于校园里的场景,我们一起上课,我们一起去图书馆,我们一起见证彼此的荣耀和狼狈。

那时候的我们,10块钱可以吃遍校园的一条街。她知道我喜欢粉红色,所有和粉红色沾边的礼物她都会特别上心。那时候的豪言壮志都在彼此的见证之下,一个一个实现。比如,期末的时候不仅是奖学金获得者,同时还有优秀三好生的称号。我们一起欢呼,我们一起庆祝,我们一起鼓励彼此要加油。那时候的我们,看到过彼此最为狼狈也最难过的时光,我明白她不言不语背后的那一份落寞,她也懂得我沉默不语背后的所有故事。那时候,我们都有一双爱笑的眼睛。那时候,我们对彼此的友情也一定真挚的不可替代。

后来毕业,我们分开了,不在同一座城市,不在同一片天空下。起初,我们还会在网络上联络彼此的新生活,吐槽彼此的现状有什么样的烦恼。因为环境,因为成长,因为价值观。渐渐地,我们不再频繁的联系,我们不再频繁的告知对方的新生活,我们也不再相互吐槽生活当中的点点滴滴。我们只在对方生日的时候说一句:生日快乐,么么哒。我们只在过年群发祝福的时候说一句:新年快乐,么么哒。

所有与她有关的画面,像电影的回放镜头般在我脑海里来回旋转,我还记得与她相识的那个夏天,我们一起约定要做一辈子的朋友。时间真的是一把双刃剑,带着我们一路走向成熟,但同时,也让我们失去许多那时候最简单,最纯真的笑容。我会记得,阳光下,操场上,那个笑起来眼睛眯成缝的女生,也会记得,过去里,未来里,这个一直在我心里占据别样位置的女生。

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许久之后,我回过神来。回复她:我那天刚好安排了工作,可能去不了,真的非常抱歉。但是请收下我最最真挚的祝福哈。她说:哎呀,就是家里人催,刚好遇见了喜欢的人,就刚好办了。就这样,她一句,我一句,我们之间好像把没联系的这几年的所有言语全部攒到一起一样,她说着她幸福的点点滴滴,我祝福着她的美好爱情。我诉说着近几年的经历,她也感慨着我们真的都变得不一样了。不知不觉得,聊到很晚。像那年大学一样,我们彻夜不眠,有说不完的话。我们精神十足,有幻想不完的未来。这种感觉,陌生又熟悉,但,真的久违了。

她大婚的当天,我在忙,一直到很晚才有空去刷朋友圈,看到她晒出婚礼现场的幸福照片,替她感到幸福和快乐。看到婚礼现场的点点滴滴,感受着她的幸福,感觉,真好。后来,她私信我说:亲爱的,你的礼物收到了,就知道你是最爱我的。我笑着回复她:哈哈,喜欢就好,这么多年,我最庆幸的是,你没变,当然,我也没变。

再后来,我们零零散散的聊了几句,都以工作忙的原因终止了聊天。微信里的聊天对话框从最前面被工作上联系的人和群消息一一代替,想要再次找到对话框就要在搜索栏里手动搜索了。这种短暂的,频繁的联系,就像海浪走过沙滩时波涛汹涌,也像有时候的大海风平浪静一样。我们恢复了正常的生活,她所有的朋友圈我都会看,但是不评论,不点赞。我的朋友圈也看不到她的身影。我想,过的好所以才不会在朋友圈里无病呻吟吧。过得好,才不会在朋友圈里感慨万千吧。生活归于平静,我们也归于平静。不联系,不打扰,也不会有任何波澜,或许才是我们彼此生活原来的样子。

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我时常会想起一句话:人生若只如初见。

总觉得初见时的美好真的美好的无可替代。但又不得不接受因为时间,因为距离带给我们的改变。就如同奔向远方的火车。这一站有人陪着你一起看风景,下一站就会变成另一个人。你没有办法去控制谁会在哪一站下车或者上车,只需要珍惜陪着你看过这段风景的路人或是友人。不仅是你如此,我们都是拥有这样经历的平凡人,关于过去,及时的告别。关于未来,及时的规划。

曾经读过这样一篇文字《最好的友情,是你不必等我》。

它说:“学生时代的友情,喜欢同一个歌星,喜欢某一项运动,经常一起打打球聊聊班里八卦,两个人就能热络的打成一片。

我们无法刻意要求某些人特意停下脚步来等我们,唯一要做的就是自己不断追赶,这世界上最好的友情,是你不必等我。”我觉得,真好。

4、

最后,我想说:亲爱的,我想告诉你,放心吧,虽然我们不常联系,不常见面,但是我希望你会记得,有一天,只要你在微信里、QQ里,短信上,无论是哪一种方式,只要你喊我,我一直在,我一直都在。就像那句:无论多大的风雨,只要你来,我都会去接你。以后的日子里,也祝愿你会健康快乐,挥一挥衣袖,不带走一片云彩。

当然,也希望提起我的时候,你也会骄傲的说:这是我的多年哥们。只要话匣子一打开,我们依然如当年,可以彻夜不眠的谈天说地,可以无话不谈的成为彼此的树洞。

以下为英文版 恒耀注册版本

I am most thankful that you have not changed and I have not changed.

1.

The hot weather of a busy summer eventually cooled down in the days that were about to end in August. Speaking of this sudden sense of coolness, I was caught off guard. Fortunately, I just bought autumn clothes some time ago, and I didn’t have to open the wardrobe to know what to wear.

Because it was raining, the weather also entered the night mode early. When I went out in the morning, I tidied up the wardrobe which I had turned upside down. After that, I lay in bed and looked at my cell phone. Think of a friend who hasn’t been in touch for a long time. Last month, he sent a message saying, “Ming Ge, I’m getting married this month in Beijing. I hope you have time to appreciate me.”

Suddenly, I fell into memories. Because there is a friend with a double name in the address book, I clicked her head to confirm which friend it was. She has changed her head to a wedding photo. No wonder I didn’t recognize it. After confirmation, I did not reply in time. Suddenly, all of a sudden, in my mind is the scene of running on campus with her in College time. We have classes together, we go to the library together, and we witness each other’s glory and confusion.

At that time, we could spend 10 yuan on a campus street. She knows I like pink, and all the gifts with pink will be very attentive to her. At that time, lofty words and lofty aspirations were witnessed by one another and realized one by one. For example, at the end of the semester, not only scholarship winners, but also the title of excellent three good students. We cheer together, we celebrate together, we encourage each other to cheer. At that time, we saw each other’s most distressed and sad time, I understand the loneliness behind her silence, she also knows all the stories behind my silence. At that time, we all had a pair of smiling eyes. At that time, our friendship with each other must also be irreplaceable.

After graduation, we separated, not in the same city, not under the same sky. At first, we will also contact each other’s new life on the Internet. What kind of troubles do we have in terms of each other’s current situation? Because environment, because of growth, because of values. Gradually, we no longer frequent contacts, we no longer frequently tell each other’s new life, we also no longer mutual Tucao life of the dribs and drabs. We only say “Happy Birthday” to each other’s birthday. We only say “Happy New Year” to happy new year.

All the pictures related to her revolve around in my mind like a movie replay. I remember that summer when I met her, we agreed to be friends for a lifetime. Time is really a double-edged sword, taking us all the way to maturity, but at the same time, it also makes us lose many of the simplest and most innocent smiles at that time. I will remember, in the sunshine, on the playground, the girl who smiled and her eyes narrowed, will also remember, in the past, in the future, this girl who has been occupying a different position in my heart.

2.

After a long time, I came back to God. Reply: I just arranged work that day. I may not be able to go. I am really sorry. But please accept my best wishes. She said, “Oh, it’s the family members who urge people to meet the people they like. In this way, she said, I said, as if we had gathered together all the words that had not been connected in recent years, she said every bit of her happiness, I wish her good love. I tell about my experience in recent years, and she also regrets that we are really different. I don’t know. It’s too late to talk. Like that university, we stayed up all night and had endless words. We are full of spirit and have illusions. This feeling is strange and familiar, but it’s really gone for a long time.

On the day of her big wedding, I was busy. I didn’t have time to brush my circle of friends until very late. I saw her hanging out happy photos of the wedding scene and felt happy and happy for her. It’s nice to see the dribs and drabs of the wedding scene and feel her happiness. Later, she wrote to me privately: “dear, your gift has been received, you know that you love me most. I answered her with a smile: Ha-ha, like it, so many years, I am most grateful that you have not changed, of course, I have not changed.

Later, we talked a few words in 00, and ended up chatting with the reason of busy work. Chat dialog boxes in Wechat are replaced by people and group messages at the front. If you want to find the dialog boxes again, you need to search manually in the search bar. This short, frequent connection is as rough as the waves when they cross the beach, and as calm as the sea sometimes is. We have resumed normal life, I will see all her friends circle, but I will not comment. I can’t see her in my circle of friends. I think it’s too good to be in a friend’s circle. If you get along well, you won’t be filled with emotion in your circle of friends. Life goes to peace, and we return to peace. No contact, no bother, no waves, maybe it’s the way we live each other.

3.

I often think of a sentence: life is like a first sight.

Always feel that the first time is beautiful, really beautiful irreplaceable. But it had to be connected.

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